Richard Vaughn Stebbins

Born: Fri., May 21, 1920
Died: Wed., Jul. 13, 2011


Visitation

6:00 PM to 8:00 PM, Fri., Jul. 22, 2011
Location: Hickson Funeral Home


Funeral Service

11:00 AM Sat., Jul. 23, 2011


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Services: 11:00 a.m.,  Saturday, July 23, 2011 at Mt. Olive A.M.E. Church, 2754 Orange Street, Ft. Myers, Florida. 

Richard Vaughn Stebbins was born on May 21, 1920 in Arcadia, Florida  to the late Emmett  and Lillar Stebbins.  He was the youngest of four siblings who preceded him in death, David Stebbins, Charles Stebbins, Lillar Stebbins Johnson, and Emmett Stebbins. His father died when he was two years old and he often told many stories of how poor his family was but how much his mother valued education.  The stories are endless of his mother’s quest for her children to gain an education so that they could excel beyond her abilities.  At a time that education was not available, especially to Negroes, he and all of his siblings graduated from High School and 3 of them graduated from college. At an early age he joined Elizabeth Baptist Church in Arcadia, Florida.

 In 1938, he graduated from Smith - Brown High School in Arcadia, Florida and attended several colleges to include Bethune -Cookman College, Edward Waters College, Johnson C. Smith and Morehouse College.  After serving in the United States Navy during World War II, he returned to graduate from Florida A & M College (now Florida A & M University) with dual majors, Bachelors of Science Degrees in English and Mathematics.   

He was proud of his siblings.  After the death of their father in 1922, his brother, David had to come home from Savannah State College to take care of the family giving up his opportunity to graduate from college.  His brother, David, worked hard and made his mother and his siblings his first priority until he had his own family. 

His brother, Charles sued the State of Florida for equal pay for all teachers.  Charles Stebbins was represented by Attorney Thurgood Marshall who later became a Supreme Court Justice.  He won the suit with the stipulation that he could never teach again in the State of Florida. His Sister Lillar asked him the question, “Did you really win if you can’t come home to work?” 

His sister, Lillar was responsible to take care of the two younger children, Emmett and Richard.  She took care of them to include nurturing and disciplining them.  It was his sister Lillar, who encouraged him to go back to college to get his degree.  She said to him, “you might be smart but how much are they paying you for your brains.” With that encouragement, he went back to college and graduated.  She also told him that he needed to be on a job with a contract because of his outspoken personality.

His brother, Emmet Stebbins was one of the original blacks in the Air Force.  He went to flight school but could not pass the eye exam.  Emmett later told stories of discrimination that confirmed he should not be an Air Force pilot.  After graduation from college his brother, Emmet, attempted to work at the Post Office in Arcadia but was told they did not have any open positions.  Instead, they hired another person.  He sued the Post Office and won the suit.  The stipulation in the suit was that the Post Office could not hire another person for many years. 

On August 2, 1942 Richard married Helen Elissa Harvin.  They lived briefly in Arcadia, Florida with his mother, Lillar Stebbins, who Helen said taught her how to care for Lillar’s baby, Richard. His wife preceded him in death on January 5, 2009 after 66 ½ years of marriage and lovingly caring for him.

He taught High School and finally Middle School in several Florida counties.  His final employment was with the LeeCountySchool District where he retired as a Middle School math teacher at Lee Middle School.  He was a member of American Legion Post 192 for over 25 years.

Richard had an excellent command of the English language and required the same of his daughter and grandchildren.  Because of his very outgoing personality and choice of “big” words in his everyday conversation, he was affectionately called “Lord Stebbins” by his friends.  He loved Sunday School and was known to challenge the accepted opinions.  However, his challenge was only to encourage others to think about why they believed what they believed. 

He leaves to cherish and remember his life, his loving and devoted daughter Greta Stebbins Campbell (Raymond); his son, Richard Vaughn Stebbins, Jr.; six grandchildren to include his loving, devoted and adorable granddaughter Cherie Campbell Williams (Daryl) and loving, devoted and dignified grandson, Cory Raymond Campbell (Tiffany); his precious active great-grandson Daryl L. Williams, Jr.; brother-in-law, Phillip Hall of Lancaster, Pennsylvania; sister-in-law, Mary Mitchell of Tampa, Florida; a host of loving and devoted nieces and nephews, cousins, former students and friends.      

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Yvette Ballard Sims
   Posted Fri July 22, 2011
Deepest sympathy to Greta, Cherie and the Family of Fort Myers and Tampa in the passing of Mr. Stebbins. May you find comfort in knowing that others are praying your strength during this most grievious time.
"weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning"

Paula Bender
   Posted Fri July 22, 2011
Heartfelt condolences to Greta, Raymond, Cherie, Cory and families. I know he will be missed but he is now with Helen being pampered.

Alan and Paula

Bobbie Hawkins
   Posted Fri July 22, 2011
Dear Greta, Raymond, and other family members: I was so sorry to read of the death of your father. I wish I could have known him; he must have been quite a man. I experienced the death of my father not long ago, so I understand your sorrow. My love and prayers are with you all. Great, I think of you so often.

Annamarie Anderson
   Posted Fri July 22, 2011
Dear Greta and Family:
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
In sympathy and friendship
Annamarie

Carolyn Whitehurst
   Posted Fri July 22, 2011
Richard instilled in colleagues as well as his students the importance of believing in self. He expected and received everyone's respect and best efforts. He was a great man, educator and friend. As one of the thousands of individuals he "touched" , he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are extended to his family.

Steve Woodard
   Posted Fri July 22, 2011
Mr. Stebbins, as I will always remember him, was probably my favorite grade school teacher, having taught me at Lee Middle School in 1971. I saw his obit in the paper while on vacation in the area. He was a fine man and his expectations for his students helped many of us proceed on a successful path. I will always remember "that finger" (the double jointed beast), which he pointed at us often. To his daughter, your father was a great man and I am sure he influenced many of today's citizens.

Carrie Dalton
   Posted Sat July 23, 2011
I was so saddened when I read this. I remember Mr. Stebbins very well. He was my 8th grade math teacher many many moons ago. (i''m now 41) I remember him as being a patient & kind teacher, the kind who were/are very hard to come by. I remember he would sometimes drink orange juice & eat peppermint candies in the am. I think I remember him telling me he had diabetes & that was why, after he told me that, we had our own special friendship & I would think about him from time to time after I left Lee Middle....I didn''t realize he had such a great history. I was taken back when I read it all...My deepest sympathies go out to all his family, friends & past students like me. He is/was a irreplaceable icon......Sincerely.......

Shirley Jones Snyder
   Posted Sat July 23, 2011
You lived a long and prosperous life and you definitely impacted lives that you were probably not even aware of as a parent, friend and teacher. Your name will always rise to the top when the term special teacher is mentioned. You coud explain "ALGEBRA" like no other.

We will miss you.

Lynn Cody Bristol
   Posted Sat July 23, 2011
I want to extend my condolences to Mr Stebbins family. I am a former 7th grade student, at Lee Middle School. I have fond memories of him. He did like his vast vocabulary and used it on us. He had a contagious smile and was firm but fair to his students. Thank you for sharing Mr. Stebbins with me. I have a few teachers who have molded me to who I am today. Mr. Stebbins and Mr. Wesley were great, great teachers. I will be praying for you. Sincerely, Lynn C. Bristol

Clarence Robinson
   Posted Mon July 25, 2011
Mr. Stebbins taught me English and Math at Lillian R. Brown High School in Wauchula FLA the 1960''s(Class of 1965). He was without a doubt one of the people who really influenced me as a young man and throughout my life. Mr. Stebbins taught us to hold our heads high and to excel. He was a ''tough" taskmaster, but very fair. He was a well spoken man and often quoted poetry to us. He was the "best dresser" I had ever seen. We emulated him and wore ties and dress shirts to school and made sure our shoes wers shined. Mr Stebbins also bought a brand new 1964 Comet (with a 4 speed) and all of us were so impressed. He is one of those people who come into your life once in a lifetime. My prayers are with the family. He was a"great" man.

Robin Berning Rogers
   Posted Tue August 02, 2011
I want to extend my condolences to the family. I am a former student from Lee Middle. I will always remember Mr. Stebbins and his way of teaching Math. He had a special gift! And he always made sure you were paying attention. He will be greatly missed.

Praying for your family,
Robin Rogers
(Lee Co. Schools)

Terri Peterson (Jett)
   Posted Fri August 05, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of your loss...Mr Stebbins was a great influence in my life. I have a love of math now, which I probably did not have before Mr. Stebbins taught me in 6th grade. He was a wonderful and giving soul who we should all aspire to replicate. GOD bless your house and your hearts!

Gina Sabiston
   Posted Thu October 13, 2011
Mr. Stebbins was one of the greatest men I ever met. He was my middle school teacher and we stayed in touch over the years. He always asked after my mother and younger brother. He taught us all so much more than academics. I am so sorry for your loss, for it is a loss to the world as well. I am so sorry that I missed the device for him as well. You have my sincerest and most heartfelt condolences.

Tracie Walker
   Posted Thu November 30, 2017
Mr. Stebbins was my Math teacher at Lee Middle School in the early '70s. He was a true gentleman, dignified and well spoken. He not only taught us math, but also quite a bit of history - and he taught us how to be ladies and gentleman. I've always remembered him with respect and affection.

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