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Paul E. Lay age 70, lost his long and courageous fight with Alzheimer’s disease on August 11, 2016.
Paul is survived by his wife Ann (Sanders) Lay of 49 years; his daughter Lori (Lay) Law, son-in-law David Law, grandson Nick Law, granddaughter Abby Law of Shelbyville, IN, Son Andy, daughter- in-law Diana (White) Lay, grandson Jackson, twin granddaughters Carli and Allison of Columbus, IN. He is preceded in death by his mother Mary Florence Wuellner. Paul was born on February 10, 1946 in Shelbyville, IN. He graduated from Shelbyville High School in 1965. He joined the Indiana National Guard in 1966. He was employed by the City of Shelbyville Fire Department from 1969 to 1990. He rose to the rank of Captain and also served as a rope and tactical instructor, as well as a member of the water search and rescue team. On his off duty days he worked for Sanders Interiors. Paul volunteered as a Reserve Deputy for the Shelby County Sheriff Department. After retiring in 1990 he became a Fire Prevention Inspector for the City of Shelbyville. He then began a second career with the Indiana Department of Homeland Security in the State Fire Marshal’s office as a Fire Inspector until 2005. Paul spent most of his adult life saving lives, fighting and preventing fires. Paul, also known as “Cappy”, was a great husband, family man and a loving father and grandfather. He was a member of the International Association of Fire Fighters, American Legion Post 70, and the Knights of Columbus. He was a gifted artist and enjoyed fishing, wood working and spending time with his grandkids. His family and friends will always remember him as a caring and giving person.
Visitation is scheduled for Monday, August 15th from 4:00 to 8:00 pm at Murphy Parks Funeral Home in Shelbyville, IN. A celebration of life service will be held at 11:00 am on Tuesday, August 16th at Murphy Parks Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Shelbyville Fire Department, South Central Indiana Hospice or Alzheimer Association
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STEVE CHERRY
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Posted Sat August 13, 2016
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So sorry to learn of Paul's passing. He was one of my classmates at SHS in the Class of 1965. My sincere sympathy to his family and now, may Paul rest in Peace.
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Meghan Murali
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Posted Sat August 13, 2016
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My Uncle Paul was such a nice, kind-hearted man. He was loved by so many people.
On the occasions I went out to dinner with him and my Aunt Ann, EVERY single time someone would come over to the table and shake his hand and tell him how nice it was to see him. He will be greatly missed, especially by the love of his life!
Our deepest condolences. With Love, Meghan & Arun
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Donna (Wilkins) Graham
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Posted Sat August 13, 2016
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So sorry to hear this sad news. Paul was a classmate and a wonderful person. Prayers to the family.
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doug @ lori payne
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Posted Sat August 13, 2016
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Sad to hear about your loss ,made a lot of runs with Paul on many dangerous situations, he was a good Firefighter with many skills, we had good times working on that shift together. God Bless, Lori - Doug
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Abby Law
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Posted Sun August 14, 2016
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My dearest Cappy,
I wish more than anything that you were still here. I know you fought like hell just to stick around for all of us. You were the bravest, most helpful, and funniest man ever. I will never forget you coming in on donut days and yelling for us to give you a bear hug! I hope that you know how much joy it has brought us to go through photos and all of your accomplishments. Talk about a legacy! I came across a photo of us dancing and I can't wait to dance again someday. The world lost a hero but you will never be forgotten.
All My Love,
Abby
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Ted Wells
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Posted Tue August 16, 2016
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Ann, Those days in the old Fire Station 2 with Paul and the others are days I cherish. The time we spent together as first responders will always occupy a unique place in my memory. He was a special person, with a loving heart and sense of pride in his vocation that took us all in. RIP Paul. Hugs when we meet again.
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