TOLER, James, age 63 of Wilmington, OH. died Mon. Sept. 3, 2012 at his residence.  He was born Aug. 17, 1949 to Harrison and Gladys (Campbell) Toler.  He was a graduate of Preble Shawnee High School and had worked many years for Jackson Cable.  He is survived by his wife of 38 years, Marilyn (Ruxer) Toler, of Wilmington, OH., son, Todd Ruxer, Knoxville, TN., daughter, Jennifer (Mike) Jackson, Ft. Polk, LA., 2 grandchildren, Wyatt Jackson, Haley Jackson, 6 brothers, Richard (Phyllis) Toler, Chesterfield, MO., Larry (Bonnie) Toler, AZ., Kenneth Toler, Wilmington, OH., Sam (Louise) Toler, Dayton, OH. Steven (Jessica) Toler, South Lebanon, OH., Robert (Judy) Wing, Camden, OH., and sister, Robyn (Randy) Combs, Trenton, OH. sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Peggy & Danny Cooper, New Lebanon,OH., Regina & Brian Vandervort, Martinsville, OH, Robert & Debbie Ruxer, Hillsboro, OH., many nieces and nephews.  He was preceded in death by his parents, Harrison Toler and mother, Gladys Wing,  brothers, Ova Toler and Donald Wing, and niece, Takhera McGlothen.  Funeral services will be held 12:00 P.M. Thurs. Sept. 6, 2012  at Lindloff-Zimmerman Funeral Home in Gratis, OH. with Rev. Dan Lamb  officiating.  Burial will be in Sugar Grove Cemetery, West Alexandria, OH.  Friends may call at the funeral home in Gratis on  Wed. from 6-8PM.  For condolences: www.lindloffzimmerman.com