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Posted by: tim wagner Fri September 14, 2018 | My dear friend and sober buddy! I will deeply miss our talks and messages online and at meetings! also music stuff, but most of all that humungous smile of yours! you would make me smile when I did not feel like it pal! I will always remember talking about all the music stars I ran into in my life and you with yours! you are with Gods and ours Angels now and no more pain, I love ya and will miss ya brother, may you rest in peace! till we meet again pal! |
Posted by: Walker Jones Fri September 14, 2018 | Dear Bekanich Family,
My brother is Kenny Jones and I know that he is very sad about this news. He is holding Alec and you all in thought and prayer. When our mom passed, this poem came to my attention. Hope it brings you comfort. Warm wishes, Walker Jones On The Death Of The Beloved โ John OโDonohue Though we need to weep your loss, You dwell in that safe place in our hearts, Where no storm or night or pain can reach you. Your love was like the dawn Brightening over our lives Awakening beneath the dark A further adventure of color. The sound of your voice Found for us A new music That brightened everything. We look towards each other no longer From the old distance of our names; Now you dwell inside the rhythm of breath, As close to us as we are to ourselves. Though we cannot see you with outward eyes, We know our soulโs gaze is upon your face, Smiling back at us from within everything To which we bring our best refinement. Let us not look for you only in memory, Where we would grow lonely without you. You would want us to find you in presence, Beside us when beauty brightens, When kindness glows And music echoes eternal tones. When orchids brighten the earth, Darkest winter has turned to spring; May this dark grief flower with hope In every heart that loves you. May you continue to inspire us: To enter each day with a generous heart. To serve the call of courage and love Until we see your beautiful face again In that land where there is no more separation, Where all tears will be wiped from our mind, And where we will never lose you again. |
Posted by: Cheryl and Robert Falvo Fri September 14, 2018 | Condolences to The Entire Family. ๐ Al you will be truly missed by all who got the chance to have met you. I for one am glad I was one of them. You were an amazing person and a Great friend. Your smile lit up a room. Rest in Peace my Friend. Free from Pain.โค๐๐ผXO |
Posted by: Cheryl and Robert Falvo Fri September 14, 2018 | Condolences to The Entire Family.๐ Al you were an amazing person and a Great friend. Your smile lit up a room . And you were always the Life of the party,whether it be Bowling or just hanging around. So Glad we became friends. And I will cherish the memories. Now you are Free from Pain. R.I.P. ๐๐ผโค |
Posted by: Jack and Mary Ann Burns Fri September 14, 2018 | Jack and I are very sad for your loss. We continue to pray for you and all your family. Thank God you don't have to do this alone. We won't be home from FL till Sunday. We will certainly be with you in spirit on Saturday.
Love and condolences |
Posted by: Charlie and Sheila Burns Sat September 15, 2018 | Mary Jo, Marlene, and family: one night Alec told me "the hardest trip I ever took was the inside one." We are so very sorry for your loss. |
Posted by: Dale A. Skursky Sat September 15, 2018 | My prayers and condolences are with the family and friends. Enjoy your trip home Al. |
Posted by: Jack O'Mara Sat September 15, 2018 | Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower, We will grieve not, rather find Strength in what remains behind, In the primal sympathy Which having been must ever be, In the soothing thoughts that spring Out of human suffering, In the faith that looks through death. |
Posted by: Bob Kochie, Jr. and family Sat September 15, 2018 | We send our love to the family in this difficult time and always. I met Al a very long time ago and lived with him for a short period of time. What I received from Al was laughter and joy. He was my Manny and I was his Hoppy! I will meet you on the other side brother. RIP |
Posted by: Christine Morreale Sat September 15, 2018 | Alec, may you RIP. I will remember all the fun times bowling as kids and then adults. You were a good man. To the Bekanich family, I am so sorry for your loss. Hold on to the wonderful memories. May God Bless! |
Posted by: Ron & Mary Claire Voveris Sat September 15, 2018 | Our sympathy to Theresa and the Bekanich family, please accept our deepest condolences on your loss. Pittston line dancers, Ron & Mary Claire4 |
Posted by: Brad Patton Sat September 15, 2018 | My sincere condolences to all of Alec's family and friends. Ran into him at pretty much every concert I went to over the past five years or so. Will miss seeing his smiling face.
Fare You Well, Alec. River gonna take me, sing me sweet and sleepy Sing me sweet and sleepy all the way back home It's a far gone lullaby sung many years ago Mama, Mama, many worlds I've come since I first left home Going home, going home By the waterside I will rest my bones Listen to the river sing sweet songs To rock my soul |
Posted by: Bill Trimblett Sun September 16, 2018 | Rest in Peace my friend....I will always remember our younger days bowling in tournaments all over the valley and then later as adults at Modern....you were a Good Friend with a Heart of Gold......rest easy my Friend....Condolences to Mary Jo Tyler and Mrs "B"...Thoughts and prayers |
Posted by: Tom Moran Sun September 16, 2018 | Alec, Attend many of my shows over the years. What a kind , wonderful person, who loved music (Grateful Dead). I will always appreciated the support over the years. Rest in Peace my friend. Tell Jerry Hi peace tom |
Posted by: Jane Roche Sun September 16, 2018 | Dear Mary Jo and Mrs. Bekanich,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Alec was a very special guy .He will be truly missed. May he rest in Peace. May god bless both of you and some how give you strength and courage at this time. love you Jane |
Posted by: Marie Raymond Sat September 22, 2018 | I know you are with our Lord, Jesus and all the ones who have gone before us. I am mourning your loss to our family, as you were so good to your mom. You are very missed.
Will see you in heaven one day. John 11:25-26 Jesus said to her, โI am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?โ |
Posted by: TJ Sat September 29, 2018 | I am sorry for your loss. Death is an enemy, we look forward to when God gets rid of death permanently. May God give you strength. Revelation 21:4 |